He's been really into you...

He's been really into you... But what does it mean when he says he doesn't necessarily want a relationship, but he's not opposed to having one either?

It means he wants the perks of being in a relationship without having to be in one. He may like or care about you, and wants to spend time with you, have regular sex... All this without being committed and being free to do what he pleases... Because he already told you, he doesn't want a relationship.

So ladies, once these or similar words are uttered, hopefully it's not too late to put those perks on hold until he is ready to be in a relationship.

They think they're so slick! SMH

Old habits, new person

Sometimes when involved with a new person, you may tend to stick to old habits you have become used to. For example, being with them everyday, calling them all day, etc. If you don't see this happening, you feel the person isn't as interested as you probably are.. But guess what? That is not the case at all, you're just at the beginning phase of a new relationship.. Remember you want to give this new time, new eyes, and new feelings.. Enjoy the newness, time, and space you have.. This is simply the very beginning, the dating phase.. Smell the roses! :)